Monday, May 18, 2015

10 Reasons Why You can Cope with Rejection

No doubt about it, rejections suck the wind out of your sails. The space around you becomes void of sound, pressure builds in your ears, your head pounds. If you're a writer, (I'm guessing you wouldn't be here if you weren't) it's almost impossible not to receive a literary rejection at one point in your career. You change publishers only to reel from the sting of rejection. Or you write something outside your norm and are instantly rebuffed. If you market your work, rejections are inevitable, regardless of who you are or how many times you've been published.

But even though they can leave you devastated, what you do next speaks volumes about your character.

Here are a few famous authors who let the strength of their character speak loudly:

1.  John Grisham's A Time to Kill - rejected 28 times.

2.  Hermann Melville's Moby Dick - labelled as being old-fashioned.

3.  Hemingway's - The Sun Also Rises, was found to be tedious. He went on to make his prose such that when readers read his work, it took their breath away.

4.  J.K. Rowling's Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone - rejected 12 times.

5.  Joseph Heller renamed his book Catch-22 after 22 rejections.

6.  Stephen King was told that his negative utopia Carrie would never sell.

7.  Life of Pi by Yann Martel - rejected 5 times - won The Man Booker Prize.

8.  William Golding's Lord of the Flies - rejected for being boring.

9.  Little Women, author Louisa May Alcott - advised to stick to teaching.

10. Audrey Niffenegger - 25 rejections for The Time Traveler's Wife - sold 7 million copies.

There are many more, but the thing to note is that these authors had something very important in common. Tenacity. They wrote a novel, spent endless hours polishing it, and when faced with rejection, chose to keep marketing.

Here at IWSG we want you to embrace rejections as part of a writer's life. They do not measure your worth or your ability. They are given by ordinary people like you and me, their opinions based on factors and biases we can't control. When faced with rejection, take however long to recuperate, then take you and your strong character back to the keyboard.


Happy Writing

--joylene...
       who received enough rejections for Dead Witness to wallpaper her ensuite.


Wednesday, May 6, 2015

Insecure Writer's Support Group

It’s time for another group posting of the Insecure Writer’s Support Group! Time to release our fears to the world – or offer encouragement to those who are feeling neurotic. If you’d like to join us, click on the tab above and sign up. We post the first Wednesday of every month. I encourage everyone to visit at least a dozen new blogs and leave a comment. Your words might be the encouragement someone needs.

Our awesome co-hosts today are Eva Solar Melanie Schulz, Lisa-Buie Collard, and Stephen Tremp!

Last month we participated in the A to Z Challenge, posting daily writing inspiration. Thanks to those who stopped or followed us during the Challenge. And a very special thanks to the IWSG admins for going above and beyond last month - Lynda Young, Susan Gourley/Kelley, L. Diane Wolfe, Michelle Wallace, Joylene Nowell Butler and Joy Campbell.

We are switching to Mondays only for the next few months. Our goal is to bring you quality content every week from the admins and guests. We want this to be the best site online for writers and authors.

If you are new to this site or the IWSG group, we encourage you to download our free book, The Insecure Writer’s Support Group Guide to Publishing and Beyond.


If you have any questions or would like to see certain topics covered, please let us know. We are here to serve you!

Monday, May 4, 2015

5 Ways to Recover from Writer's Fatigue


There are many reasons a person can experience writer's fatigue. It’s that feeling of being spent, used up, and drained of creativity. It can happen after any intensive session of writing, editing, battling deadlines, and even taking part in online challenges like the April A-Z Challenge. While we gain a lot from all these activities, they can also wear us out. If this has happened to you, then below are my suggestions on how to refill that creative well.

1. Take a short break and stop trying to “be the writer.” Be something else for a while. Turn off the computer and experience some life. There is no better well-filler than life. Even mundane life. We get our ideas and creativity from those unexpected places, the bland, the interesting, the unusual places that life has to offer.

2. Read a good book. Not a book you have to read because you agreed to write a review. Not a book you promised to read because it was written by a friend. Just a book you enjoy. One that brings with it little to no pressure. No matter the subject matter or genre, good books inspire.

3. Write something new. Step out of your comfort zone and try writing within a different genre than you would normally. Try non-fiction. Flash fiction. Explore a different topic.

4. Learn something new. Feeding the brain with new and interesting information or different approaches to an old method, can open the mind to new possibilities, new ideas, and new avenues of creativity.

5. Get physical. Exercise gets the blood pumping and pushes those cobwebs away to make room for new, energized thoughts and creations.

What works best for you while recovering from writing fatigue?

Don’t forget, the IWSG Day is this Wednesday when we encourage you to share your insecurities or offer reassurance to others. If you haven’t already, you can sign up for it on our sign-up page.