Monday, March 17, 2025

A Guilt Trip



Have you ever gone on a guilt trip? Have you ever given one? You must be nice if you give trips. I have never seen guilt trips show up on all those ads you see here, there, and everywhere though. Maybe it should just be guilt since you go nowhere. Actually, you could be going many places, which causes the guilt. I should just go jump off the dock above now, huh?

Thanks. but no thanks. Too cold. Plus, fish poop there. Seagulls do as well. People probably have too. Let's not feel guilty about avoiding pink eye, okay?

What am I going on about? Haven't I guilted you into it yet? I guess I should feel guilty that I didn't do my job. Pfffft to that. I'll just double down and beat it into the ground. No guilt here.

Do you ever let yourself feel guilty because you are doing other things instead of writing? Do you spiral afterwards? Does that rabbit hole need a flashlight? 

Nah. It needs a shovel. Fill in the hole and leave the guilt there. There is no reason to feel guilty about not writing enough if life is in the way. It doesn't matter whether it is in the way because you have work or are out enjoying it. It just doesn't matter.

You need to eat and pay the bills. You need to feed the kids, dogs, cats, etc. You need to do such things. So unless you are a millionaire author, there is nothing to feel guilty about when you are doing what needs to be done.

When it comes to enjoyment, you are doing such things to gain experience and because you enjoy them. I know. Imagine that. Joy from enjoyment. You can't spend all your time behind a computer. You are only able to do such things at certain times, ages, etc. So do them without guilt.

The writing will be there. You'll get to it when you get to it. No need for a guilt trip that literally goes nowhere. That is unless you are sitting in your underwear 24/7 for months on end and literally doing nothing or going nowhere. You can feel a little guilty in that case. You may also want to seek professional help.

Do you feel guilty when not writing? Do you realize it isn't something you need to feel guilty about? Ever taken a guilt trip? Where did you end up? Timbuktu? Was it cheap? I don't feel guilty asking.

Let's bury the guilt in that rabbit hole with a shovel because when you are the one buried you won't feel guilty about nothing. You'll be dead. Harsh, but true. I have no guilt saying it.

Write when you can and kick the guilt to the curb. 



The IWSG has a guest article at the My Story Doctor site! Quite the honor. We talk about dealing with negative, so please check it out.

Monday, March 10, 2025

Podcasting as an Author: Expanding Your Reach and Embracing Imperfection



By Tyrean Martinson


How I Got Started

For years, I thought about starting a podcast but I was unsure if I had the right equipment or expertise. When my church podcast started and I was asked to join, I realized I had the basic tools I needed—I just had to go for it. We had minimal equipment and no prior experience, but we learned as we went. That experience showed me that anyone can start with what they have, improve over time, and build something meaningful.

Start Where You Are—Perfection Not Required

Like writing, podcasting is a journey, and growth comes with experience. Your first episodes might not have perfect audio or flawless delivery, but they will have you, and that’s what listeners connect with. If you wait for perfection, you may never begin—so start with what you have and improve along the way.

In the current age, it’s more important than ever for readers to hear and/or see you being authentically human.

The Basics: What You Need to Get Started

Podcasting doesn’t require an expensive setup. Many successful podcasts started with minimal equipment and upgraded as their audience grew. Here’s what you need:

1. A Recording Device
Your smartphone is a recording device. If you’re starting with little to no budget, apps like Voice Memos (iPhone) or Voice Recorder (Android) work well enough. As you progress, investing in a USB microphone (such as the Blue Yeti or ATR2100x) can improve sound quality.

2. A Recording Space
Sound quality is just as much about the space around you as it is about equipment. The best recording space is quiet and free from echo—think small rooms with carpet, curtains, and bookshelves to absorb sound. If you don’t have a dedicated space, a car can be a recording studio due to its soundproofing.

3. Hosting and Distribution
Once you record an episode, you need a way to share it with the world. Free platforms like Substack now offer built-in podcast hosting, making it easy to get started. Other free or low-cost platforms include Anchor (by Spotify) and Podbean. If you feel comfortable with video, you can also record and upload your podcasts on Youtube, Rumble, or on Instagram and Facebook live.


Vocal Warmups for Podcasters


Just like singers and public speakers, podcasters can benefit from vocal warmups to enhance clarity, control, and confidence. Here are a few simple exercises to prepare your voice before recording:

Deep breathing exercises–Inhale deeply through your nose for four counts, hold for four counts, and exhale slowly through your mouth for four counts. This helps relax your vocal cords and improves breath control.

Tongue twisters—Practice phrases like “Red leather, yellow leather” or “She sells seashells by the seashore” to improve articulation and pronunciation.

I do these warm-ups every time I podcast because I have some speech differences—because I was partially raised by my grandmother who had a late cleft palate surgery and who also had a stroke. I spoke with her daily from the age of two onward, and I mimicked her way of speaking, along with mimicking my parents’ way of speaking—and my mom had one deaf ear, while my dad had a strong regional Oregonian accent. Knowing that I have those differences of speech, I work on my vocal clarity regularly, although honestly, there are days when I get complacent, and later… well, if I’ve recorded, I can hear it. Instead of closing my podcast down in embarrassment, I keep going and I keep working at it.

The Power of Podcasting for Authors

Podcasting is an opportunity to engage your audience in a way that shows your authenticity as a human. You can share insights into your writing process, discuss themes in your books, interview other authors, or even serialize your own stories. Podcasting allows for deeper conversations and long-form storytelling, creating stronger connections with readers.

Another benefit of podcasting is that it can prepare you to speak publicly. Many authors prefer not to publicly speak, but there are times - like at in-person book events - when it is helpful to be able to speak about our books. Podcasting can help us practice this skill from the comfort of our own individual space before we speak to people in public.

Where to Start Listening

Here are some podcasts that showcase the breadth of what’s possible:


The Creative Penn Podcast—Hosted by Joanna Penn, this podcast focuses on writing, publishing, and book marketing with a mix of solo episodes and guest interviews. She also hosts the Books and Travel Podcast.

Self Publishing with ALLi—A podcast by the Alliance of Independent Authors covering everything from self-publishing strategies to book marketing and industry news.

Mysteries, Monsters, & Mayhem
—Hosted by Shannon Lawrence and MB Partlow, this podcast delves into all things creepy, mysterious, and intriguing—from true crime to cryptids, and everything in between. Each episode is served with a sense of humor, making for an engaging and entertaining listen.

The Truth About Storytelling—this is my podcast which I hope inspires writers, readers, and creatives. Each week, I delve into topics such as the writing process, sharing work, the perseverance required to continue creating, and finding joy throughout these endeavors. I also have the Tyrean’s Tales channel on Rumble, and have uploaded some episodes on Youtube.


Embrace the Journey


Starting a podcast as an author doesn’t have to be overwhelming or expensive. It’s okay to begin with just a phone and a free platform and build from there. The key is to start and keep going—because the more you podcast, the better you’ll become. Your readers (and listeners) don’t need perfection; they just need you.

Hit record, speak your story, and let the world hear your voice.


Wednesday, March 5, 2025

The First Wednesday in March

 



Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!


Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time - and return comments. This group is all about connecting! Be sure to link to this page and display the badge in your post. And please be sure your avatar links back to your blog! Otherwise, when you leave a comment, people can't find you to comment back.


Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!



The awesome co-hosts for the March 5 posting of the IWSG are Ronel Janse Van Vuuren, Pat Garcia, and Liza @ Middle Passages!


Every month, we announce a question that members can answer in their IWSG post. These questions may prompt you to share advice, insight, a personal experience or story. Include your answer to the question in your IWSG post or let it inspire your post if you are struggling with something to say. 


Remember, the question is optional!


March 5 question - If for one day you could be anyone or *thing* in the world, what would it be? Describe, tell why, and any themes, goals, or values they/it inspires in you.