Showing posts with label writing motivation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label writing motivation. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 2, 2023

#IWSG Day: August 2023 - When you feel conflicted about your words...


 Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!

Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time - and return comments. This group is all about connecting! Be sure to link to this page and display the badge in your post.

 Now let’s rock the neurotic writing world!

Our Twitter handle is @TheIWSG and hashtag is #IWSG.

The awesome co-hosts for the August 02nd posting of the IWSG are:  Kate Larkindale, Diane Burton, Janet Alcorn, and Shannon Lawrence!

Every month, we announce a question that members can answer in their IWSG post. These questions may prompt you to share advice, insight, a personal experience or story. Include your answer to the question in your IWSG post or let it inspire your post if you are struggling with something to say. 

Remember, the question is optional!

August 02nd question: Have you ever written something that afterwards you felt conflicted about? If so, did you let it stay how it was, take it out, or rewrite it?

Can you recall a book you’ve read over and over again? You’ve probably highlighted phrases and sentences that you love, and/or scribbled notes in the margins of this book. This signifies a single truth:

These words made you feel something.

And it was likely some form of discomfort.

Yes, we want the warm and fuzzies; words that uplift us and stir our soul.
But some of the most effective writing also makes us feel a bit unsettled and shift in our seats. It makes us confront truths that we don’t want to hear or perhaps didn’t know we needed to hear. There is an inherent connection with writing that has an undercurrent of unease.

So when you feel conflicted about something that you’ve written, ask yourself, why am I so conflicted about this writing?

Remember that you don’t have to show these words to anybody; but they are important, as they form part of your writerly growth as you begin to dig deeper and deeper to reveal your more authentic self.

Whether you let it stay how it was, take it out, or rewrite it – it doesn’t matter. What IS important, is that you dared to venture into territory that made you feel uncomfortable.

Dig deeper and embrace the words that make you feel conflicted. You will probably surprise yourself and in the process you will become a stronger writer.

Wednesday, May 3, 2023

#IWSG Day: May 2023 - Why Writers Are Weird and Wonderful (Thank Goodness)


 Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!

Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time - and return comments. This group is all about connecting! Be sure to link to this page and display the badge in your post.

 Now let’s rock the neurotic writing world!

Our Twitter handle is @TheIWSG and hashtag is #IWSG.

The awesome co-hosts for the May 3 posting of the IWSG are: Joylene Nowell Butler, Ronel Janse van Vuuren, Meka James, Victoria Marie Lees, and M Louise Barbour!

Every month, we announce a question that members can answer in their IWSG post. These questions may prompt you to share advice, insight, a personal experience or story. Include your answer to the question in your IWSG post or let it inspire your post if you are struggling with something to say. 

Remember, the question is optional!

May 03rd question: When you are working on a story, what inspires you?

Writers are inspired by many things! Newspapers, TV, movies, other books, art galleries, meditation, dancing, exercise, overheard conversations, dreams, nightmares, nature, adventures, blogs, magazines, forums, music, quotes, history, writing partners, word games, freewriting, people we've met, loved, hated, been married to...there are too many to count...the list is never ending!

The act of getting words down onto a blank piece of paper (or computer screen) requires great courage. As a writer you dare to put yourself out there; your dreams, fantasies, opinions and experiences, which all filter through your writing in one way or another. This makes writing a confessional act, no matter the genre.

 Writers are often a little weird, in a wonderful way. We observe the world around us intensely. Writers tend to be anti-social. Since writing is a solitary pursuit, most writers love solitude… turning inward. Time spent in solitude fosters creative thinking.

Remember, what you do is one of the most important motivations in the world - you write.
You share.
You help us all connect. 

Find what inspires you! Writers who are in touch with the sources of their inspiration are at an advantage.

Your words matter!
Remember this whenever you feel discouraged or disappointed by another rejection or a bad writing day - or no writing at all.

Your words matter!
Keep those thoughts front and centre.
Your words matter!
Embrace your weirdness!
Find your tribe!

Finally, if you really have the itch to write, it will never go away!

When you are working on a story/poem/article, what inspires you?
Do you see yourself as weird and wonderful?
As a creative, how much time do you spend in isolation? 

Monday, August 22, 2022

How to Find the Motivation to Write Your Book by Alyssa Hitaka

Writing is hard. It’s thrilling, invigorating, and rewarding, sure—it’s definitely worth doing—but that certainly doesn’t mean it’s easy. Once you’ve come up with a great idea you’re excited about, it can be difficult to put pen to paper and bring your lovingly crafted story to life. Today, we’re presenting a few key tips that can help you find the motivation to write when you’re feeling lackluster.


Remember Your Why

Why do you love your story? Why does it deserve to be told? Why do you want to write? Why are you putting yourself through all this? Amid all the toil of writing, it can be easy to forget why you’re doing it in the first place. So if you find yourself succumbing to the allure of procrastination, take a moment to remember why you embarked on this journey in the first place. Rediscovering your motivation can give you renewed energy to tell your story.

Break Down Your To-Do List
Writing a novel takes a lot of effort. It’s not something you’re going to finish in an afternoon. When you think about everything that must go into your story, it can easily become overwhelming. That’s why it’s best not to think about it that way.
Any task—even the biggest, most intimidating projects you might undertake—can be broken into numerous smaller tasks. You might not be able to finish a chapter today, but you can finish a page. If you’re overwhelmed by the tasks at hand, keep breaking them down until they’re doable, and work from that level. And it’s okay if you have to break your tasks down to a very basic level. Any progress is progress, and it’ll build up over time—so it doesn’t matter how little it is on a daily basis.


Plan Carefully Before Diving In

There are probably certain sections and scenes in your story that you can’t wait to just dive into and start writing. But this impulsive style isn’t usually the best way to tell your story. A novel requires require a well-developed plot with relatable characters and realistic turns of events, and until you carefully flesh out an intensive outline of your plot, even you don’t know all the finer details of your story.
So, before starting to breathe life into your characters, take the time to develop a careful outline of your story. Covering all the major (and even minor) plot developments allows you to view the flow of your story from a distance and make necessary tweaks before you start writing. It also gives you an opportunity to think deeply about each major section of your story, which can help you identify plot holes and other insufficiencies that would be much more difficult to rectify after you’ve already written your manuscript. Once you have a well-thought-out plot outline to guide you, you’ll have much more confidence when you start writing, boosting your motivation.

Abandon Perfectionism
One of the factors that frequently keeps writers away from the keyboard is the fear that their story will be less than perfect. Well, of course your story won’t be perfect—that’s impossible. Even the most beloved, world-famous authors can’t pull that off. Abandon the idea of perfectionism by reminding yourself that your story deserves to be told, even if not “perfectly.”
When writing your first draft, you don’t need to be concerned with “perfection” at all. At this stage, all you should be focused on is converting your story into words on the page. It can be clunky and full of grammatical mistakes. That’s fine, because this isn’t what you’re publishing. Reminding yourself that you’ll revise your story through various drafts frees you from the paralysis of “perfection” and allows you to move forward with your writing.


Reframe Your Fears

Sometimes you may put off writing under the fear that you won’t be able to do justice to your beloved storyline, failing the characters you now love so much. We’re not going to pretend that that thought isn’t scary. But you know what’s even scarier? Never writing your story at all.
If you’re feeling unmotivated, spare a thought for your future self. Think about how accomplished you’ll feel having written your book, how rewarding it will feel to know people are reading and loving your story, and how you might build up a fanbase for future stories. Sure, that’s motivating. But what’s even more important to think about is an alternate future where you didn’t write your book. Think about the regret you’ll feel, the potential you knowingly wasted. The way to save yourself is to write your book. There may be no motivation stronger than that.

Get Help
You don’t need to be alone on this journey. Whether it’s friends who can encourage you, beta readers who can offer valuable feedback, editors who can polish your manuscript, or professionals who can help compose a killer query letter to pitch your manuscript to agents, the world is full of people who can aid you in your novel-writing mission. We at QueryLetter.com are passionate about great books and helping the authors behind the titles. As agents, publishers, and authors ourselves, we’re in the ideal position to guide and encourage up-and-coming authors.

- Alyssa Hitaka, QueryLetter.com

Monday, September 6, 2021

5 Times It’s Okay to Write Just for Fun by Colleen M. Story


Most writers feel pressured to make money from their work. It’s no wonder, as our culture values monetary rewards above all others.

Current research shows that three out of four American college students consider it “very important” or “essential” to become “very well off financially.” That’s nearly double the numbers from 1970.

Add to that the desire to “look good” in front of our peers, the tendency to judge our writing even before it’s finished, and the fear of failure, and you have a situation ripe for discouragement and writer’s block.

What happened to writing just for fun? Surely that’s what you did when you started out. Maybe you’re missing that carefree creative feeling.

If so, below you’ll find five times it’s okay to let your guard down and allow your imagination to run free.

1. It’s Okay to Write Just for Fun If You’re Just Starting Out

This is the best and easiest time to write just for fun. No one is expecting anything of you. If you’re writing in secret (and haven’t told anyone yet), so much the better, as no one will know what you’re doing.

It doesn’t matter if you publish, make money, or win awards. This is your time to simply write for the enjoyment of it, so take advantage of it!

Motivating Tip: Realize that many experienced and successful writers may envy you! Once they have publishing deadlines to keep, marketing tasks to complete, and too much to do, many long for those early days when they were free to just write without worry.

When you start thinking about publishing and all the rest, stop yourself and take a step back. You have time now to explore your writing nature. Allow yourself to fully inhabit this part of your journey. The other parts will come soon enough.

2. When You’re Not Ready to Publish, Write for Fun

You may feel pressured to publish right away, but no matter what your friends or peers may think, it’s always best to wait until you have a lot of words under your pen.

It’s a more common mistake to publish early than it is to wait too long, so don’t feel like you have to justify the time you spend writing right away, or even within a few years.

Take the time you need to discover your author’s voice and the types of stories you want to write. When you are ready to publish, you can begin to pursue that goal, but give that desire time to grow until you’re ready to face the challenge.

Motivating Tip: Writer’s guilt is an affliction that plagues many writers, particularly when they’re learning their craft. You may feel guilty for the time you’re spending alone in a room with your laptop when you could be doing something else more “useful” or practical.

Remember that you’re writing for a reason. It may be a fun hobby for you, but you may also be answering a calling or following a lifelong dream. Honor your reasons, whatever they may be. Writing is a beneficial practice for many reasons, and as long as you’re enjoying it and are committed to it, there’s no doubt that you’ll benefit from it, no matter whether you ever publish or not.

3. When You’re Stuck on Your Current Project, Switch Gears

You’ve been working on your novel for a while now, and you’re struggling. The plot isn’t coming together, or maybe your characters are acting, well, out of character. The pacing is off, or you can’t figure out how you want to end it.

If you've been banging your head against a wall for a time on your current project, it can help to switch gears and write something different just for fun. Try a poem, a short story, or a children’s story. Write a magazine article or a slice-of-life story.

Don’t worry about how good it is or whether or not you’ll publish it. Allow yourself to write purely for the joy of following your imagination, and see where it takes you.

If you succeed at leaving your inner editor behind, you may discover the solution to the problem plaguing you in your novel. It's amazing sometimes how loosening up your writing chops can bring your creative muse back to the table.

Motivating tip: You know that if you spend too many days in a row doing hard workouts, you’re eventually going to push yourself too hard, risking injury.

The same can happen with writing. After working hard on a project for a long time, you need an easy day to step back and allow your creative muscles to recharge. Writing something entirely different with no pressure to publish can help you do just that.

4. If You Don’t Like the Idea of Publishing and Book Marketing, Write for Fun

Today’s publishing market is very competitive, and it’s not easy to gain a foothold among all the other great writers out there. Most writers want to try, but you may not be one of them.

Maybe all you want to do is write your stories in peace. You can share them with family and friends, and that may be enough for you. If so, there is no reason to feel like you have to do more.

Motivating tip: Writing can provide several benefits to your life that you may not have thought about. Even if you never publish or receive a dime from your work, writing can help you heal, express yourself, explore hard questions, recover from trauma, and reflect on experiences.

When you maintain a regular writing practice, you may also experience other benefits such as boosting your creativity, increasing your brainpower, improving your ability to communicate with others, and getting to know yourself better. All of these reasons are more than enough to justify continuing to write for the fun of it.

5. Make It Your Goal to Write Just for Fun More Often

 “Is this book good enough? Will it sell well? Will anyone want to read it?” Questions like these can leave you anxious and stressed, and those feelings chase creativity away. Yet we often allow ourselves to get caught up in these sorts of thoughts when we’re writing our stories.

When we write for fun, on the other hand, our work tends to be more creative and inspired. It’s when we get bogged down by deadlines and marketing that we can start to write formulaic and cliché-ridden stories.

You need that spark inside you to fulfill your potential as a writer, so whenever you find that it’s fading out, make a point to do what you need to do to get it back. Often that involves play, so go have some fun!

Motivating tip: Take yourself on a writing date. Head out to your favorite park, café, library, or other location, armed only with your pen and notepad or laptop. Allow yourself to just be for a few minutes, then write whatever comes to mind.

Observe the people around you and make up a story about them, or choose a picture you see and write about that. Be outrageous in your writing and allow yourself to push the boundaries. Go farther than you normally would, and just enjoy the experience.

When you finish writing, close the notebook and return to your life. Later, you can look at what you wrote to see if you want to do anything more with it, but don’t expect anything. The exercise was simply for fun. Anything beyond that is gravy.

When do you allow yourself to write just for fun?

Note: For more on overcoming self-doubt and deciding to be a writer no matter what, see Colleen’s new book, Your Writing Matters: How to Banish Self-Doubt, Trust Yourself, and Go the Distance. Get your free chapter here!

 


About the author: Colleen M. Story’s
latest release, Your Writing Matters, helps writers determine once and for all where writing fits in their lives. Her previous release, Writer Get Noticed!, was a gold-medal winner in the Reader’s Favorite Book Awards, and Overwhelmed Writer Rescue was named Book by Book Publicity’s Best Writing/Publishing Book in 2018. Her novel, Loreena’s Gift, was a Foreword Reviews' INDIES Book of the Year Awards winner, among others. Her next novel, The Beached Ones, is forthcoming from CamCat Books in spring 2022. Colleen is the founder of Writing and Wellness (writingandwellness.com) and Life and Everything After (lifeandeverythingafter.com). Please see her author website (colleenmstory.com) or follow her on Twitter (@colleen_m_story).